A Mother's Revenge

Personal notes that I add for a reflective and responsible approach.

Everyone should see this movie. For every reasons, for a better understanding of suffering of children abused and for preventing abuses; also for educational reasons, for all the details that could help to prevent from happening, in what concerns evaluate the profile of people who gets hired to work near, to teach, to take care children. Teachers, pediatrichian, the driver of the school van, civil society near the children in general. The bonds. Everyone that could obtain the easy simpathy from them. They are vulnerable and inocent. 

There is a pattern that keeps on pedophile's abusers. But if we don't explian to childrens, as well as bullyers, how can them depreend that?  Pedophiles seems to get  easy working and being near children and winning their simpathy, most of the times. We need to investigate and evaluate all the profiles of those hired to work in schools, kindergartens, preparatory schools, high schools, colleges, and we must start by evaluating our own children and children who are closest to us. Abusers often remain protected by family ties and sheltered from shame and silence and negligent behaviour. It depends on us, adults, time and attention to the details that prevent this type of crime that diverts the development of the child and the potential adult. Suffering and abuse remain, in addition to physical and moral damage.

Today, we have predators on social medias, getting acess to them information so easy and it's difficult to control this but on presence of where children are, pedophiles seems to acess with time and easier to confrontation, and we are not there, there are huge gaps. 

 Children cannot understand the abyss and the symptoms that prevail in the facis of pedophiles. And how to avoid certain profiles. Children trust adults. And as we know, neurolinguistic programming has easily confirmed, our brain does not understand the word no. In pedagogy, it seems that we still do not understand, after all, why the little ones do not imitate us, if we tell them that they should be afraid of adults. A child in healthy learning and development will hardly be pessimistic and does not follow the teacher for what he says, but rather imitating what adults do. We are all responsible for the freedom of a predator, a bullyer, a criminal that we cover up, that we know tendencies and keep silent. And we know that pedophilia does not discriminate against social class, color, sex, age. And we also know that it is born inside homes, schools, villages, cities. Pedophilia is vast and hidden. The segregation of pedophilia still does not cure, but it prevents the collateral damage of this crime that is an octopus that decapitates the healthy development of the human being. Conscience and civil, social and individual responsibility must function as a kind of an educational diaspora, first protecting and unlearning to learn, where all movements must be evaluated and, in the study of details and isolated acts, many cases can be avoided. But there can be no prurience in dealing with these issues with children. Adults who love their children protect them, they don't abuse them. The mechanism in this department has to evolve and take more steps than pedophilia itself seems to do per square meter in the world. Generations of children cannot suffer any type of abuse to develop correctly and build healthy societies and for this it is also necessary to resort to exposing and talking about the topics with the kids. It's important to prevent, not to remedy after the crimes. And it's urgent. 

American society does not look at pedophilia as a sexual orientation, but it is, although it is necessary to specify that it is a sexual orientation contaminated by pathological factors (psychopathological anomaly, taking into account that it is a crime). And from here, we can discuss that the pedophile who is, for example, 35 years old and who tries to molest a 13-year-old child, is deserving of imprisonment, social isolation, that a 25-year-old pedophile in front of a child of the same age and, finally, an adolescent 5 years older than the child is a painful indication,  serious of being in the presence of a pre-pedophile. Social isolation must be required in all cases. Bullying seems to be, apparently, more permissive and excused, but the seriousness of the crime should be looked at in the same way as sexual crime. Because collateral damage achieves sufficient longevity in the human being's path. The narrative used in health, whether psychological or behavioral, has not achieved the meritorious results that academic knowledge predicts. It is necessary to regulate again. Talking about primary, secondary and tertiary prevention in cases of crime can sometimes work in behavioral health, but not in the prevention of crimes like these, whether bullying or pedophilia. Both are serious enough to make the physical and psychological vulnerability of the child, adolescent or adult a crime of severe self-esteem amputation.